Ask Ammanda: I'm gay but I've fallen in love with a straight manUploader: Gazragore 5 month ago Subscribe 4
I want a relationship with another man, but every time I try dating gay guys, I'm instantly turned off because they're usually not masculine enough. When we become gay adults, sexualising those straight 'daddy figures' gives our unconscious a way to feel safely attached to them. Whenever I hear the label 'straight-acting', I cringe because to gay men, usually it really means 'acting masculine'. Straight men can also represent our fathers and other male care- givers, including priests, coaches, teachers and other men known for positions of authority.
Makes me wish I should have went to collage
You never asked your wife. You're just a scumbag.